Bad sex ruined my marriage

If a man plays golf, the chances are that he spends more time and effort thinking about his golf technique than his sex technique.

Think about that for a moment girls.

I wish I had. Dave was the perfect husband in every way. He was charming, handsome, intelligent and good at pretty much everything he did. I married him at 21 and stayed married for five years.

There was only one thing he was no good at: Sex.

In seven years living with him, I only had three orgasms during sex and only one of those was with Dave. We had been married three years. Until then, sex had been strictly missionary style with only cursory foreplay after going to bed.

It was a night in August, without air conditioning. We had thrown off our nightclothes but still couldn't sleep.

I suggested sex, but Dave wasn't interested - too hot. I stroked is cock to see if I could get him interested. Soon he was hard, but he still wasn't interested. I kissed the tip of his cock, now he was interested but still no response. This encouraged me to go further, I began kissing and licking his whole shaft.

I wanted him inside me so I straddled him: Now I was in control. I wanted long and slow.

I came - how can I describe it?

Afterwards I wanted more. But soon we were back to the same old missionary position quickie. Even when I went on top, it just didn't connect.

The marriage went downhill rapidly from there. I became more frustrated, the rows became more frequent. Pretty soon we were arguing about everything.

By the time we started looking for help it was too late.

If I knew then what I know now, we could have saved that marriage. Or ended it earlier.