Toys : nJoy : Pure Wand

I paid $90 plus shipping at Liberator after reading a review by Nina Akoi.

Like the rest of the Pure range the Wand is made from solid stainless steel and it is heavy.

It comes in a substantial black case. There are no instructions, just this sleek metal object sitting on a pink cushion.

Its very smooth and very sensual and nicely angled so that you can lie flat on your back while using it on yourself. Its so smooth that like Nina says, it just slips in without lubrication.

All that metal mass means that it can be somewhat cold at first but it soon warms up. I usually warm it up using some warm water in the sink first but some reviews suggest going the opposite way and chilling it.

The lack of moving parts and the fact that it needs no lubrication makes it an ideal toy for using in the bath.

Nina has a pretty comprehensive explanation of how it is meant to work. But the short version is this, the vagina is not quite the simple tube it appears in anatomical drawings.

The first inch and a bit of the vagina has muscles that pull it tight around the penis. Gripping the penis tightly means more pleasure for him and more semen to fertilize her (evolution is sexist, get over it). In most women, the g-spot that you have heard so much about is just behind the muscular sheath.

So now the clever design of the Pure wand: Behind the large, 1 1/2" head it tapers gently. Net result, slide it part way inside you and at a certain point its like your vagina grabs hold of it, pulls it in and if you are lucky (like me!) sliding right past your g-spot. Then you pull it out a little and it slides back again.

Using the Wand gives a woman a wonderful feeling of being full and satisfied. But the wand also has a smaller end that is 'equal opportunity'. More on that later.